Tell yourself everyday, "I am smart. I can figure things out. I may bump my head ten times against a wall, but I am smart. I will find the door. I will grab the knob. I will open the door. I can do this. I don't need an "expert" to do this for me. We have become a nation of expert-oh!My-holic. Tell yourself everyday, "I am smart." Be smart. Don't go looking for an expert unless you have exhausted your brain power.